Friday 29 April 2016

Week 1. 15 April 2016



Module 1 


 by  Gordon Cook

-This is the man who mentored the founder of this initiative. This man deserves a trophy for mentoring Koo Govender, enabling her to want to mentor a hundred more women, and creating a platform for us to grow and mature.

 

-The first module was the key things I will never forget. That is;
1. Show up
2. Stand up
3. Speak up
4. Stand out

-Now if you’re not getting anything from these. You need to reflect on your life, because “He Not Busy Being Born is Busy Dying”- Bob Dylan. In other words, if you’re not continuously growing, renewing and learning, you are not living.



-Gordon made me feel pursuing a career in writing was not as wishful as i had thought after all, even told me that I could get a writing coach to advance. From him to Koo and now to me, I can be anything and have everything I ever wanted. A triple threat. A writer, an actress and wait for it… Miss CEO!

 

 

Meet and Greet


-The food was amazing! They had platters I've never ate let alone seen before. From sliders to brownies, I'm telling you I was so full I could barely walk. Had I worn a cropped top that day people would have seen the unimaginable!. I couldn't even suck my stomach in. I love food and everything but the amazing part was meeting and being paired up with mentors. 




-The most inspiring bunch of successful women. Call them Superwomen if you like. From CEO's to writers, head of departments to Miss SA, these women are phenomenal. I had to walk up to greet my mentor in my most uncomfortable pair of heels, I felt like I was mountain climbing bare feet!. Regardless I met Yevenia Naidoo, my mentor. The head of HR at Dentsu Aegis Network SA
 


-I don't mean to be biased but I have a great mentor. She's sweet, calm, beautiful, not a makeup person (like me), married and has 2 beautiful kids. This woman has it all together I'm telling you. 



-Somewhere between our chat I tensed up, not because I was uncomfortable but because I listened to her story and repeatedly told myself that I want to succeed, that I want to make something out of myself, and I won't let being without privilege stop me. I told myself that I belonged there, that this is what I want to become.



- These thoughts gave me a headache, brought me close to tears and made me mumble. What an impression right?, but I tried to keep it together, hey I'm a big girl!







4 comments:

  1. you are so narative, I dont ever doubt you being an author. stay inspired, and conquer all your dreams, head on!

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    1. Thanks lol i really try to get better at it each day :) , and i will most definitely do that thank you :), please stay tuned!!!!

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  2. To be honest, Ifeel that this course has changed you a bit, from this rough girl to a calm lady. Not only did getting through to Phakama help you mature and see things in a bigger picture, it got you to dream far beyond your circumstances and made you believe that YOU CAN, AND YOU WILL DO IT. You've got a bright future ahead of you doll, embrace the challenges that you have to go through to get to that future.

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    1. Right, it has really inspired me and of course i wouldn't be a lady if i do not act like one :) And thank you i most definitely will, stay tuned! :)

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